A Real Prince

Every so often I give an assignment I later regret.

Two weeks ago, after my history class read a little of Machiavelli’s The Prince, I asked them to apply what they had learned to a real life situation they knew well. They were to assess one of their teachers as a “prince”—changing his or her name, of course—and to ask the bigger questions, “Did following or violating Machiavelli’s edicts contribute to this teacher/prince’s effectiveness as a classroom leader? Was Machiavelli right?”

The overwhelming majority of the essays described teachers who would rather be feared than loved, who moved students with force instead of trust, who sought to give the impression of virtue but enforced values they did not themselves follow…and who—almost without exception—were great teachers.

I’m sorry I asked.

Sorry, not just because I am NOT one of those my-way-or-highway teachers but because I can’t help taking my students’ perspective seriously. They know—perhaps better than any graduate student in education—what works.

Some of the essays described teachers who gave detentions for every tardy. Some describe which teachers received late or make-up work first (because other teachers would forgive you everything). Some talked about harrowing encounters with teachers who forced them to do more work than they thought possible or teachers who, in situations where they might be expected to bend, didn’t.

Don’t misunderstand me, my students did not say they liked these teachers, but they did find them effective. These princes of academia didn’t care about being liked—and the end truly justified the means.

Me, I like to be liked. Oh, I understand my kindness has to have an edge and that, as Machiavelli pointed out, too much mercy is in the long run no mercy at all. My tests and assignments are challenging, and I read student work closely. Yet I’ve always thought curiosity a better motivator than compulsion and believed a little forgiveness a sign of faith in a student, a confidence in his or her character. Though I’ve been burnt plenty of times, most students—it seems to me—fulfill the promise you ascribe to them. I try not to trick them or scare them into good work. I try to model an intrinsic interest in learning instead. I want to elicit the labor only loving a task calls forth.

Those essays, however, made me feel like the hole in the fence they’ll always climb through.

By the seventh or eighth essay, I was looking for rationalizations. I told myself they’d remember my lessons longer because they wanted to remember them…and not just to pass the next impossible and terrifying test. I told myself that anything they did to appease me was probably not something they did for themselves and—as their desire to learn is the real object of their education—that’s as it should be. I told myself I had to live the codes of fairness and tolerance I ask them to live by and couldn’t ask them to be more perfect than I could ever be.

And I came close to believing I wasn’t rationalizing at all.

Then I picked up another essay. It concluded with the observation that students recognized the advantage in convincing teachers they liked their subjects. Doing so usually meant relaxed attention to homework and less work in general. The best teachers, the essay said, know few students really love school and don’t trust brown-nosing. They make their students do the work.

I winced—am I living a self-serving fiction transparent to everyone but me? You know the movie cliché…a room of people in oddly-angled too-close close-ups pointing and laughing.

For a couple of days after returning the essays, I stared warily into students’ faces searching for insincerity and listened for laughter that was a little too loud or long. And for a couple of days, I imagined I saw and heard what I was looking for.

Then a student I haven’t taught for a couple of years stopped by to see me. He’d just read a book on his own, and friends told him I’d just taught it. He wanted to talk, to hear what I thought, and, after thirty minutes of questions and digressions, he said “Thanks,” and left.

And that was enough of an antidote. I picked up another set of essays to look for new discoveries. I won’t forget my Prince assignment for a while. Machiavelli could be right about princes, and teachers. Yet, as long as I can’t know for sure, I guess I will have to go on living as if he’s wrong.

6 Responses to “A Real Prince”

  1. Off topic, but could you recommend a good beginner’s Haiku text, on how to write Haiku and also one on poetry in general, though I have a few of those :?
    Thanks, Gloria (TIV)

    Two general books on poetry I like are Lewis Turco’s The New Book of Forms and A Poet’s Guide to Poetry by Mary Kinzie. Both are invaluable references but different from one another. If you don’t have them already, you should look into them to see which fits what you want it for.

    I actually have never read a single book on haiku. I’ve just read a lot of haiku and the background history I’ve found online and elsewhere. I’ve read some Japanese aesthetic theory, especially as related to wabi sabi, and I’ve read some essays on haiku by Octavio Paz and others. The Essential Haiku, edited by Robert Hass, is a good place to start, as there you will find early hokku masters, Basho, Buson, and Issa.

    Hope this helps. —D

  2. interesting read and assignment

    Reading back over this, I wonder if I was fair to my ninth graders. I think it would be another step of sophistication to address a teacher who isn’t a prince and is a good teacher or who is a prince and isn’t a great teacher. I wonder how many were taking the path of least resistance or thought I was asking them to say which teachers were good AND good princes. Whatever their motives, I felt threatened reading so many essays about great teachers I’m clearly not. —D

  3. D, I am not a teacher but I see the parallels in parenting styles. We were considered way too lenient by certain parents in our community when our children were growing up. I told my kids that good grades bought them freedom, and all 3 took me up on that. Now that they have left home and are successfully on their own trajectories, several of the parents who I know were critical of me have sought me out to tell me that they wished they had been more like us as parents. And all 3 of my kids have told me emphatically that they will raise their kids just as I raised them.

    I don’t tell this story to be pumping myself up, and I hope it doesn’t read that way. The issue is that I feel strongly about many of the same things you care about in teaching. I believe that in the long arc of living our methodology outlasts the force field of “power over” techniques.

    I hope you find more and more evidence of your effectiveness as a teacher and mentor. I have no doubt from reading this blog since its inception that you are exceptional.

    Thank you. I console myself with the thought that I’m an earnest teacher, and that my students can’t avoid knowing that I care about them and want to serve them well…even if I don’t always succeed. I know from going to brain conferences that no learning takes place without stimulating emotion. Fear works, so does love—but I like to believe love works better. —D

  4. D
    don’t short change yourself on this–you are reflective and that is good. I have 85 teachers who work for me and most aren’t or just don’t take the time. Maybe this is not the right grade level for this…maybe it is. Right out of the chute they will take the least restrictive path…but with the right pre discussion it could work. One thing, you are right love works better. That is what they will remember not the assignment.

  5. Thank, D.

  6. I think many of them were writing about teachers they feared, and they think fear is what motivates them to do the work. While it might be effective for a prince, in the long run it’s not so for a teacher. What is the teacher’s goal? To make the students work, or to entice them into learning?

    I would rather be in your class any day.

    Thank you. One of my office mates told me about a paper in her class. Her student wrote about a teacher who pushed her so hard she made an “A” in the class, but the moral was different—she didn’t think the experience was worth it, that the “A” came from compulsion instead of desire. I think some students will always see school simply as something that must be borne—they will do whatever is asked of them—but others understand they are the object of their education. They do whatever they can. I like to think every student will eventually find his or her way to the second group. It took me until my second trip to graduate school to fully understand. —D

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